How to Get The Guy
Text: Matthew Hussey
How To Find Your Ideal Man In 5 Steps"
Step 1 - Ask yourself: Where is my ideal man at the weekend?
A lot of women who go to nightclubs every week complain that they
don't meet guys who enjoy art galleries!
If you want to find your ideal guy, the best exercise I can
recommend is to ask yourself this: What is my ideal guy doing on a
Saturday evening? And then get yourself down to these places!
The point is to make sure that when you do meet guys, you meet the
right kind of guys.
Step 2 - Integrate other men into your peer group
Remember: Guys know other guys!
You might have men at work who you're not attracted to but who
possess attributes you look for in a partner.
If you like butch rugby guys and someone at work happens to be a
rugby player, head down to one of his parties, or a rugby dinner
he's having.
The more you expand your social circle this way the more you expose
yourself to men with the attributes you're looking for.
Step 3 - Start being a social animal in EVERY area of your life
Make conversation everywhere. Start to get to know everyone in your
life. When you go to a bar, say hello to the doorman. Ask the
barman how his night is going.
The more you get chatty the more you go into a sociable state where
it becomes easy to talk to anybody.
Step 4 - Get out of your comfort zone
There's an old saying: If you keep doing what you've always done,
you'll keep getting the same results.
This is also true of dating. You have to get outside of what feels
safe. One great way to do this is to make a habit of saying "YES" to
every opportunity that presents itself over the next month. If
someone invites you to do something that you wouldn't normally do,
just say yes.
You won't believe where it leads you.
Step 5 - Awareness
Opportunities will present themselves to you if you know how to
spot them
If you see a guy on the train with a book you've read, that's an
open invitation for conversation and you'll know you have something
in common!
Start looking for the little ways to connect with men and you'll
start seeing them everywhere.
It's no secret that men are a tricky bunch right? One minute they
like you and it feels as though you have an amazing connection, the
next minute they're so distant, it's like you don't even know each
other!
Here's the thing though... it really doesn't need to be like this,
there are steps you can take right this moment to not only attract
the right guy, but also get him to chase you. I'm not talking about
creepy guys hounding you on the phone or by text, I'm talking down
to earth, spontaneous, attractive and interesting guys that want
the same as you do!
You can seriously change the way you meet and interact with guys, to the point where YOU WILL find your ideal man... quickly.
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