Simple Ways To Attract Any Guy
There's a question I get asked more than most and it always sounds
pretty much the same every time "how do I attract guys without
risking the chance of rejection?" or "is there anything I can do to
get guys to notice me more?".
Although there is no particular answer for these types of questions
there are several tips you can apply to your every day life to see
a dramatic change in your level of attraction towards men. These
are tips which I advise every woman I meet to immediately adopt and
use because they SIMPLY work, here they are:
1. Be prepared to break rapport
What does this mean? Put simply, be willing to disagree with him!
This is a common mistake women make. A lot of women will laugh
excessively or agree with everything a guy says if they like him.
Now I'm not telling you to create conflict, but if he says
something which you think is wrong, tell him you disagree! Guys
will like it that you have different opinions to them, and what's
more, the attraction will be much more powerful when you identify
the things you actually do have in common.
It's counter-intuitive, but we are actually more attracted to
people who challenge us in this way.
2. Teasing
Guys like to be challenged. They want to prove themselves a bit to
you.
Teasing involves using a skill that guys love in a girl: BANTER.
Make sure you give as good as you get. Not in an aggressive way,
but show him that you're testing him as well.
Try giving a compliment but with a bit of a twist: e.g. "Those are
nice shoes, did you pick them out yourself?" Flash him a cheeky
smile and he'll see you're being playful.
3. Elicit his passions
Remember, a conversation shouldn't feel like a resume check.
When you speak to a guy, it's often a good rule of thumb to think
"why" as well as just "what".
In other words, when you ask him a question about his job, that's a
"what" question. e.g. "What do you do for a living?". It's fine to
ask this, but the answer alone won't tell you a lot about him as a
person.
So after he tells you try asking him why that profession suits him,
or ask what his dream job would be.
This is how you elicit his values. Getting someone to talk about
their passions in this way makes them enjoy your company more, as
they will be able to speak about what they really love doing, which
will make their emotional connection to you stronger.
4. The simple power of touch
As a woman you must use touch to your advantage. It's what
immediately creates sexual chemistry and makes a guy see you in
more of a sexual way.
This might feel a bit
uncomfortable at first
if you're not used to
it, but the touch only
needs to be light. Just
touch him lightly on
the knee when you
make a point. Or if
you have to lean in
to speak to him in a
noisy environment
just rest your hand
gently on his chest or
shoulder. These little
things communicate
your sexuality to a guy,
and heighten his
attraction to you.
Or better yet, combine touching and teasing. If he says his age and
it's a fair bit younger than you, you could say: "Oh that's quite
young isn't it?". Then you follow up by squeezing his arm gently
and saying: "That's ok. I like a boy toy".
Remember, you do this more playfully than seductively. It's meant to communicate you don't take yourself too seriously. Once you do this, you'll open up a whole new chapter in your life,so make sure you take a look.
